Hi ladies,
My husband and I are gearing up. We did our blood work, meeting with Counselor tomorrow night. Hubby will get the genetic testing this week and I will start my my mock cycle in December I hope.
Can you ladies tell me your success and failures. The good and bad that happened so I'm prepared for it all. The toughest thing is getting this financed. I'm praying we get it from Springstone. Also, two huge questions that I'd like advice on. 1) emotionally we will probably only do 2 cycles (praying 1st one works) so would you still do the all inclusive 100% refund 1:3 for 30,500 or would you do shared risk for 24,500. If the first cycle does not work you pay another 5,000 for new donor. If they both don't work you get money back but not all of it. I'm worried BC I don't know if I'd be the 3rd recipient and how do you upgrade? Final question) PGD testing. The drs at all clinics keep telling me no its not necessary but its up to me. If money wasn't a problem we would do it for extra piece of mind. But do you feel its needed since my hubby is getting the major genetic testing and the DE also gets the same testing ? Sorry for the rambling. I know we have to stick w shady Grove BC of the money back policy they offer but I don't like the staff. They are rude and don't return calls or email. Heather our finance rep laughed at me when I told her what fertilty finance said to me. And when I told Mallory and Heather both that financings this was only thing holding us back. I barely got a good luck. I actually heard oh- well hopefully it works out and another reminder that they never heard fertility finance tell someone well best we can do for you is not much. Ugh. I often wonder if all these road blocks are a sign that we need to stop trying :-(
Thanks for listening.
My husband and I are gearing up. We did our blood work, meeting with Counselor tomorrow night. Hubby will get the genetic testing this week and I will start my my mock cycle in December I hope.
Can you ladies tell me your success and failures. The good and bad that happened so I'm prepared for it all. The toughest thing is getting this financed. I'm praying we get it from Springstone. Also, two huge questions that I'd like advice on. 1) emotionally we will probably only do 2 cycles (praying 1st one works) so would you still do the all inclusive 100% refund 1:3 for 30,500 or would you do shared risk for 24,500. If the first cycle does not work you pay another 5,000 for new donor. If they both don't work you get money back but not all of it. I'm worried BC I don't know if I'd be the 3rd recipient and how do you upgrade? Final question) PGD testing. The drs at all clinics keep telling me no its not necessary but its up to me. If money wasn't a problem we would do it for extra piece of mind. But do you feel its needed since my hubby is getting the major genetic testing and the DE also gets the same testing ? Sorry for the rambling. I know we have to stick w shady Grove BC of the money back policy they offer but I don't like the staff. They are rude and don't return calls or email. Heather our finance rep laughed at me when I told her what fertilty finance said to me. And when I told Mallory and Heather both that financings this was only thing holding us back. I barely got a good luck. I actually heard oh- well hopefully it works out and another reminder that they never heard fertility finance tell someone well best we can do for you is not much. Ugh. I often wonder if all these road blocks are a sign that we need to stop trying :-(
Thanks for listening.