My frozen egg donor cycle was a total flop. I feel like we just threw our money (basically everything we had) right out the window! To make a long story short after many many years of trying, 3 1/2 years of infertility treatments including miscarriages, different clinics and 6 months working towards this last frozen donor egg cycle I still have nothing?! We are currently so strapped and financially cannot afford to keep to up this battle right now not to mention emotionally and physically I feel like I've been in the wrestling ring to long trying to fight this infertility battle to no avail! For my frozen donor egg cycle out of 7 eggs, 4 thawed, 3 fertilized, 2 divided and I had a 3 day transfer of 2 not so great looking embryos that resulted in a BFN! I literally spent a ton of money for AF to visit again! We just never expected these results and I thought/assumed we would definitely have a 5 day transfer and we would have some healthy blasts and conceive one and if blessed have an extra to possibly try for a sibling. But instead we didn't even get a decent shot to try for one, I had better results with my own eggs which as I was told are poor results.The egg bank only guarantees that 4 eggs thaw and the rest is up to luck? How can this be fair? I can't even believe that we just end up still in the same boat and at this point I have no choice I just have to except that the money's gone and our chance is over and try and come to terms that maybe it's just not meant to be no matter how bad I fight or we want it. Has any one else had results like this with frozen donor eggs. What did you do! I feel so naive for believing this was going to finally work out for us! Just looking for your words or wisdom, advice or support from other ladies who can relate.
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