Hi Ladies
I just need to vent.
Our donor went for her assessment yesterday, coordinator told me to follow up the day after, ie today.
When I called this am, she just shortly told me that she will only advise on viability of thw donor once she has the amh results, for which test the donor will go on Tuesday. I like yesterday was Tuesday? Then she told me the donor was late, stuck in a major traffic jam, and they only do amh test on Tuesday mornings.
I understood that, although it is disappointing.
Then i told her i'm on day one of my cycle, will she send me the bcp prescription, as last week the RE told me he wants me on it asap to sync. She exploded and told me she's done many cycles over the years and she will only send the prescription next week as i don't need to be on it now . I asked her to please check with RE as he was quite explicit about this last week
Ok, how TF would I know what the hell is happening if she doesn't tell me? No one told me anything about yesterday, how must i know bloods for amh didnt happen? Did she honestly expect me to wait for a response until she deigned to call me next week some time?
I discussed this with the coordinator of the agency who i've known for years and she was very understanding.
It's just so upsetting when we have been through this mill so many times, have paid a fortune and be treated likean irritation in her day.
There, it is out. I was looking forward so much to joining an active cycle thread today with news on my donor, and now this. I didn't want to poison the thread with this rant, so i put it here.
If you got this far, thanks for reading! 
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So upset with coordinator
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