For those doing DE because you're older, do you regret not trying sooner? I so regret it and it gets me down. I know some were not with their partners so they couldn't, but we have been together since we were 25. Plenty of fertile years. I know it will work out in the end but I regret not trying sooner because of having to do IVF and DE (all the money we spend as well as not bio child) and also because I'll be an "old" mom. How do you reconcile these feelings? I wish I had more older mom friends IRL to relate to. I sometimes get caught thinking when she's _____ years old I'll be _____.
