Did you have a hard time with the idea of DE at first? If so, what made you come around?
I just had my 4th IVF failure, and I'm totally shattered. Like really not okay. I always said I wasn't comfortable with DE as an option for me, bc I have this terrible fear I'd feel differently about that child vs my DD. But now it's my only option for a 2nd child. I desperately want to be "okay" with it, but I don't know how to get there.
Sorry if this is not the right board for this. I have so many fears, but I would hate to pass on my only chance if they are just normal ones that everyone has at first but gets over. Does that make any sense?
I just had my 4th IVF failure, and I'm totally shattered. Like really not okay. I always said I wasn't comfortable with DE as an option for me, bc I have this terrible fear I'd feel differently about that child vs my DD. But now it's my only option for a 2nd child. I desperately want to be "okay" with it, but I don't know how to get there.
Sorry if this is not the right board for this. I have so many fears, but I would hate to pass on my only chance if they are just normal ones that everyone has at first but gets over. Does that make any sense?
