Please respond. Even of its a yes or no. This is causing a huge conflict between me and my husband and I could use some help.
Me and everyone in my family generations back are all brown hair, brown eye. My husband family is all brown hair and eye besides his grandpa who passed away long time ago with blue eye, blonde hair.He also has one blue eye cousin(out of 11 cousins ), one blonde/ blue eye niece. He think we should consider going with a blonde/blue, green eye donor and it should be ok. But I don't agree and this is causing constant fight and arguments between us. He is very pushy and has no patient and can't wait for this to be done, one way or another. We are looking for a jewish donor so we don't have many choices. Should I go with a blonde donor or wait to find a donor that resembles our coloring. We are no tell to family and friends. (I also have a genetic DD with brow eye, brown hair)
Me and everyone in my family generations back are all brown hair, brown eye. My husband family is all brown hair and eye besides his grandpa who passed away long time ago with blue eye, blonde hair.He also has one blue eye cousin(out of 11 cousins ), one blonde/ blue eye niece. He think we should consider going with a blonde/blue, green eye donor and it should be ok. But I don't agree and this is causing constant fight and arguments between us. He is very pushy and has no patient and can't wait for this to be done, one way or another. We are looking for a jewish donor so we don't have many choices. Should I go with a blonde donor or wait to find a donor that resembles our coloring. We are no tell to family and friends. (I also have a genetic DD with brow eye, brown hair)