In 2010 I did a split cycle with a 22 year old donor. And had my son no problem.
In 2013 I got pregnant using my own eggs and had a miscarriage at 9 weeks the pathology report said Trisimony 16.
In 2011 we had her cycle again 2 frozen embys and we transferred in 2014. In a freak accident I was passing a kidney stone that sent me in to labor and I lost my baby at 20 weeks. It had nothing to do with the donor her quality etc. Just really a devastating accident.
We had the same donor cycle again in early 2015. We did not share. She is now 27. She produced 38 eggs. 16 made it to testing. And after PGS only 4 were normal. Emby number 1, 2, and 11, 12 in their ranking.
In February 2015 we transferred 1 and 2. I thought everything was great fantastic betas. Ultrasound day nothing on the ultrasound. Nada. But my beta that day was 15,000. So where was the baby? My doctor wanted me to come back monday for another scan. But Sunday I started bleeding and I went to the ER. Ectopic in the tube. I had to have surgery and lost the tube. The heartbeat of the baby was strong.
In August 2015 we transferred our last 2. And just found out Thursday our BFP was chemical.
So this donor has gotten us pregnant 100 percent of the time. I just keep falling on the wrong side of the statistics.
We are out of frozen. What would you do? Would you change donors? I am hesitant to do that because I want my son to be genetically related to his sibling. My RE and I talked and he said a new donor might give us more genetically normal embys. But the issue is I really don't want more. I want one more baby. Although if I had more I guess I would have one or 2 more and then donate the rest. Should I change clinics? I don't know how difficult it will be to take my donor to another clinic. Should I throw in the towel and just realize this is not going to work for me?
The protocol I was on for both 2015 FET was synthroid (I had most of my thyroid removed and I have Hascimoto's thyroid disease, prednisone, heparin, baby aspirin, medication for MTHFR, coq10, vitamin D, baby aspirin, estrace, pio, intralipids every other week.
I don't know what to do. Please give me some guidance.