Hi all you lovely and brave ladies!
So many tough and emotional decision in this process! My donor just had her first appointment with my clinic last Friday and everything went great. Now we are just waiting on her blood lab that should be in in a little over a week. I feel really good about her and am excited that her appointment went so well (she had great antral follicle count).
I have been thinking alot about if I want to meet her when the retreval happens. My heart says yes but I feel nervous about it. For one, what if she seems really different than how I percieved her on her profile and it makes me feel differently about her. I'm also concerned about what she might think of me....Also, my DP has no interest in meeting her but is totally fine whith what I need/want to do.
What has been your experience?
Did you meet your donor or not and how did you make that decision?
If you did meet your donor, how was it to meet her?
I would love to hear your stories!