Hi ladies! I thought this would be a good place to post this question. My sis (32yo) and her husband (31yo) have been trying for a few years to conceive. when she was tested a year ago, the specialist said that her egg reserve was that of a 40 year old. it doesn't appear that she has any other issues. She has had many failed iuis, one which resulted in an ectopic pregnancy and they had to remove one of her tubes. she proceeded to ivf. with 9 eggs retrieved, only 1 made it to 5 days. it didn't take. she's heartbroken and worried about the financial impact from more failed ivf attempts.
i have 3 kids ages 3.5, 2, and 10mo, which i was fortunate enough to conceive the first month we tried so i know that i'm still quite fertile. we spoke about it and i've told her that i want to help if she ever needs it. she's very touched and has thought about it too, but only problem is that i'm already 33yo. do you think i'll be too old to donate if she wants to in a year or two? i'm also worried that she could go through all of this and it still might not take...