Hi Ladies.... So, i feel like im back to square one which was a year ago....my husband has been on board and has been very into donor egg for last 9+ months. Well, tonight we both agreed on a donor (he actually picked her 1st) now he is givibg excuses not to move forward. First excuse was, I think we are to old..which we arent. He will be 40 on Sunday so i dont know if that is freaking him out. I will be 40 in June. Then he said how are dont even know how we are going to pay for it. Well, i then showed him the plan. Then he said...why dont we work on paying off the IVF loan first save up as much as we can so we dont need to take from 401k and savings. after talking i said why dont we select the donor bc she already has 2 out of 3 and we can talk about it more. We have 72 hrs before payment needs to be made or she goes back in the donor pool. Then he said how can we pick someone we know nothing about? But we know what her profile states. Part of me wants to "reserve" her but if i do our code is disabled. And im worried if i disable her and hubby wants to look over again he wonr be able to. And i will feel like i went behind his back. Anyone else go through this..and what was your outcome...good or bad.
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