Hey ..... Where do I start?

Hey ladies! I'm new here. Fresh off ivf cycle # 3. Made it to retrieval only for the eggs to not fertilize...our follow up appt was Monday where we were told we are probably at the end of the road for my eggs...our medical team determined that if we continue doing ivf we would probably keep getting the same result. So here we are looking at each other like what's next. I will add I have 2 beautiful children. My daughter is 17 and headed to college next fall. My husband and I have a baby girl together (ivf cycle 1) p and she just turned 2 last week. We know we are blessed beyond measure. We thank God for our little girl every day. Considering that we know we would like a sibling for her to grow up with. Of course our clinic claims to have a great donor program but I can't help but wonder what happened. I know I'm not young (37) but geez .... I keep thinking what happened. I'm told at this point our only option is DE if we want another child. Of course we are not against it but it seems like there was no in between. We will get another opinion and I'm sure they will say the same but it will give me peace of mind I suppose.


I've been reading through the post here and I have to say you ladies are simply fabulous. I hope you guys can help me work through the feeling of defeat I'm experiencing.


I know it will be find but I still find myself shaking my head thinking this is unreal.


Thanks for reading.


(I attached a pic of our little girl)