My husband and I are in the decision making process between IVF w/ DE and adoption to avoid passing on a genetic mutation that I have. I have called two different places to make consultation appointments, but I'm not quite sure if that's the right thing to do yet. By going in for a consultation are we taking the first step in the process, or is the consultation still part of the deciding?
Someone who has been through the process before, can you help? Should I just be calling and asking questions or is going in and having a consultation what we should do if we aren't even sure if this is the route we are going to take?
Thank you!